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Dont get trapped into the friend zone! Heres one way to be sure you are not a candidate for just a friend status. You have to have some sort of physical contact or touching when talking to a girl. By having some physical contact between the two of you you are establishing a sense of mutual tactility with each other. This may be a problem for some guys, how to assimilate the touching/physical contact smoothly without creeping out a girl? Use physical contact and touching to help you when you want to know how to approach a girl.

One thing to remember is to not be aggressive with a girl upon introducing yourself. You dont want to scare her away. This is the wrong approach. That way is going to get you nowhere and is counter-productive. This just places both of you in an uncomfortable setting for the rest of the night by being overly too touchy.

So now you know you can be too overly aggressive, but you must also know that you can also be too timid. If you dont show any physical contact to your date you may as well punch your ticket to the friend zone! This is not the best approach either as it may come off you are simply not interested.

Let’s figure out how you can gain the balance between not coming off as creepy but yet still show that you are interested in her.

When you first introduce yourself, form a mutual physical bond quickly by giving her a kiss on the cheek while introducing yourself.

There is one known area where you can touch her in which you definitely wont be invading her personal space. The outside of her arm is an area that isnt too personal and a woman wouldnt feel easily offended if you make contact there.

The key here is to build a rapport with a woman. You want to create this so you can keep a sexual attraction between the two of you. This allows for a sexual attraction to grow between the both of you. Which is vital.

Remember to be natural, do it in a manner so as to seem as natural as possible. For example, if she wants to go to the bathroom, direct her and help her get through the crowd by making sure shes holding on to your hand or your shoulders. This allows her to get to where she needs to go and you get the physical contact you want.

Giving a hug when closing out your conversation is a great way to leave a good lasting impression.

It is worth your while to build this bond and rapport with a woman as she’ll want to hang out with you again and not in just a friend way. Learn this technique and in no time you’ll be double your dating.